No book for you if you

• looking for a ready-made recipe for your life,
• when you need others to tell you what to do next,
• if you want to stick to a mainstream.

It is suitable for you if you want to live independently. You do this by observing without judgment and listening to your inner voice. I don't mean the constant commentator who always knows everything better. By that I mean your inner observer who looks for effects instead of culprits, who does not try to 'straighten out' observations. This makes you your best advisor. Nobody knows you as well as you do.

At home, most of us have learned to follow an opposite direction: "If you do as I expect you to, you are okay, I can like you or even love you." We do not only get this behavioral request from our mothers. It also comes from fathers, partners, friends, teachers, government authorities ... We grow up with it, we integrate it into our lives as a habit and finally as a secret conviction. We ourselves apply them to our fellow human beings. In short, we adapt without consciously noticing how we align with the so-called mainstream.

You get your self-determination at the price of being rejected by those who want to submit to you.

For this you win with your self-determination

• Clarity about and for your life
• Liveliness and joie de vivre,
• Creative power and life energy,
• your joke in life
• your creativity in all situations,
• Success paired with fulfillment,
• Mindfulness of yourself and others.

In addition to findings from the neurosciences, the basis for this workbook is above all the observations from working with my clients, my own life experiences and a self-determined lifestyle that gives me the courage to explore more and more unknowns and to integrate them into my life. Self-determination is the ticket to a life with creative freedom that you cannot do without it. Self-determination opens the gate to your paradise for you - now.

With a total of 29 Self Guidance Pulses, you do not direct your attention to leadership ideologies. With the processing of the first impulse you already begin to lead your self-determined life. Get the book, start with your miracles instead of waiting for miracles.